Affair Handbook

Contrary to popular belief, there is still plenty of life left in you after the age of 50. And more than ever before 50+ers are stepping out and having affairs. You may have a few added aches and pains but nothing that would stop you from living your life to the fullest every day. Millennials are always surprised to see a spry and sexy older man out and about connecting with women of all ages. Fox News: Why women love a mature man. What they often fail to realize is that older men have lived through the lessons that that they are just starting and some they haven’t even dreamed of yet. These guys know what they want and how to get it. Women are attracted to their confidence and style. They are willing to look over a few wrinkles to get the competent, masculine feelings that seem to emanate from the over 50 crowd.

What’s Your Poison?

First thing’s first. When you make the big decision to seek out an affair, you must first decide on your preferences. It may seem that they come easily or naturally and in some respects that is true. However, if this affair is going to happen, you may as well shoot for the top. Always wanted to be with a younger woman? Go for it. Got your eye on the 40 something, hot receptionist at the office? No time like the present. You may think you’d have an affair with any available female that expressed an interest at this point in the game but that isn’t necessary. You have the perfect opportunity to find and conquer that sexual conquest you’ve always dreamed of.

The Advantage of Older Men & Affairs

If your starting to get the itch to have an affair in your 50’s you have an advantage over the younger guys. (Crazy Affair Facts) Most marriages at this point are solid and there is little to no suspicion or mistrust no matter what you do. You are free to spend as much time out of the house as you can come up with a viable excuse for. You’re free-range, dude. Use it to your advantage
 

Personal Reboot

Once you have so much time freed up and you know what you’re after, it’s time to prepare for success. Take quick personal stock of what you got going on. Maybe you need to hit the gym or start jogging. Metabolism slows as a person ages and it becomes harder to keep that toned physique you had most of your life. Metabolisms may slow but it isn’t stopped and a few extra activities a day will have you looking and feeling half your age in no time. You’ll also need to get at least two trendy, new outfits. Something age appropriate but with a trendy take on your old favorites. See if you are to old for that outfit here. Update your grooming habits as well. Try a new cut or style. Consider a well-groomed beard or even a color job to wash away grays.
 

Go Where You Have Never Gone Before

If you have a cute little number picked out already, all the better. If not, you need to begin your hunt. Start by going where the type of woman you want to be involved with spend the most time. Night clubs and bars, coffee shops, trendy restaurants, poetry readings, and book signings all have the potential to be teeming with available and willing women. If you’re seeking a sugar daddy/ sugar baby relationship the best place to get started is online. There are many websites dedicated solely to hooking up people looking for this type of relationship.
 

Keep Your Feeling in Check

One thing to remember when you’re trying to begin an affair after 50 is that you must keep your feelings at bay. Affairs are supposed to be fun and exciting, not stressful and dangerous. If you have been married a long time and love your wife, the last thing you want is to get caught in an affair. A great way to avoid this is to keep the affair on a sex buddy type relationship. Make sure the other woman is fully aware that the affair is for fun and excitement only and will not lead to a relationship of any kind.

Loose Lips Sink Ships

Remember to ALWAYS keep your secrets close to the vest. Never tell a soul what you are up to. Not even your childhood best friend or your relatives. You never know when something could slip, either intentionally or unintentionally. Keep your secrets and take precautions not to get caught by always going a few miles away from your home county to take your new lady on the town.

Having an affair after 50 isn’t as uncommon as you may think. (See The Facts) Men and women both still have strong sex drives and a lot of curiosity about the world. There are a lot of advantages to having an affair after 50. Start enjoying them today.