Affair Handbook

Some guys just can’t get enough. If being married and having an affair wasn’t enough, some men want even more. For whatever reason this is, if this is something you’re interested it is definitely possible. However, it will take quite a bit of planning and understanding to assure that no issues arise. As if they do it could mean the end of multiple relationships.
 

Here are a few things that you absolutely must keep in mind.

Plan Your Time
Assuming a man works a full-time job, and then comes home to his wife in the evening, he’s not going to have loads of free time to himself. He likely has hobbies, kids, and small tasks around the house; when’s he supposed to spend time with other women? If this sounds like your life then it’s going to require some very precise and delicate planning of when to meet these women. Yes, it’s not romantic, and no it’s not spontaneous; but these are the types of things you’re going to have to give up when having multiple affairs, let alone one. Eventually, something’s gotta give. Whether that means you’re going to have to stop watching sports at night, or hanging out with friends on the weekends, you’re going to need to find time to spend with multiple women. And because you’re going to be out and about so much, you need to have your story straight. Which leads us to the next point:
 

 
Have a Good Excuse
‘Good’ should be emphasized. You can only “Buy groceries” or “Help out at the homeless shelter” so many times before your lie begins to fall apart. To have a bulletproof, legitimate excuse you need to find something that seems believable. One good way to do this is by starting some sort of club, or perhaps a hobby. This is something that you should display interest to your wife, as well as your mistresses, so they all buy into it. Tell the ladies what you’re doing and when and use as much detail as possible. While using lots of detail gives more room for exposure, if you make the lie foolproof then you will be in the clear.

Infrequent Seeing Other Girls
As was previously mentioned, time is of the essence to most men. They are busy and have plenty of obligations. Finding a way to see multiple women requires something to give. The easiest way to do this is too simply see your mistresses less frequently. Instead of seeing them twice a week, cut it down to once a week, perhaps even only a couple times per month. While this is not ideal, it’s good for your mental health. Plus, you won’t have to be constantly making excuses. While your mistresses may not appreciate this, let them know that it’s for the best.

Don’t Bring them Around your Place
Bringing another woman to your home is just asking for trouble. If it’s not our wife or kids that spots her, it will be your neighbors, gardener, deliver boy etc. It is in your best interest to avoid bringing these women around, and you should always go to their place when possible. If necessary, go to a hotel, or even the backseat of a car. Both of those places, while not ideal, will do in a pinch and don’t run the risk of you getting caught.

Be Mindful of Publicity
Just as it is important to not bring mistresses around your house, it is also important to not bring them around to your usual stomping grounds. This includes any restaurants, bars, social clubs, or any other public venues you frequent often, especially with your wife. The reason for this is that the more often you go out with your mistress, especially to places you go often, is that you run the risk of being exposed cheating. It’s best to just stay at their places, or low-key venues where you won’t have to worry about watching eyes.

Don’t Change Your Habits
Okay, so as previously mentioned something will have to give. But that doesn’t mean you have to turn your whole world upside down. Remember, if you’re going to have more than one affair at a time it’s because it’s going to bring you more happiness and enjoyment. Don’t let in run you into the ground. Continue to treat your family and mistresses well. Spend time with friends, keep up on your work and career and hobbies.

Conclusion
While one woman can be a handful on her own, multiple women can give a man trouble. He can adequately prepare though for whatever is thrown his way. It requires following the previously laid out steps, namely discretion and time management. If he follows this closely than he will be able to reap the wonders of having multiple affairs at a time.