Affair Handbook

Most women understand all too well that some men are particular about how a woman looks, especially one that they’re dating or married to. Or in the case of this article having an affair with. It’s often that a man will groan about how his wife is in sweatpants again or tell her that her green dress is better than her blue one. Men will have their preferences. As a woman who is having an affair, you’ll have two men to dress. This can be an issue when they have different tastes. Which most likely will be the case. Your husband will question you buying a dress he doesn’t approve of, and how can you question him when it’s really for your lover?

It’s possible to dress for both your husband and the guy you like to fool around with on the weekend. Using creativity and a keen sense of style, a woman can please both her hubby and her hunk with the clothes she dresses herself in.

Casual Wear for a Casual Lover

If an affair is serious and not just about going dancing or out to eat, casual clothes will also be worn around a man you see on the side. Your husband must get used to you wearing t-shirt and boy shorts around the house, but your boy toy may feel like you’re letting yourself go when he sees you dressing down.

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A woman who really wants to please both her men buys casual clothes that are also stylish. You can look hot and sexy in the right pair of yoga pants that make your butt look higher and more voluptuous. Wearing a white, sheer t-shirt without a bra can actually drive a man crazy with desire. Casual clothes can be used to lounge around with your husband and also to make your weekend plaything moan.
 

The LBDs

You know what that is. Every woman has to own a little black dress. For your husband, this dress is probably a little more matronly because you have events to go to, fancy restaurants to eat in, and you aren’t exactly single anymore. Showy little black dresses are for when you’re out at the club in your twenties, looking for someone to MAKE your husband.

There’s a way to satisfy both your love and your husband with one LBD, though. The key is to balance sensuality and practicality. Don’t go for something backless, but also avoid something with long sleeves. With the right amount of dress hunting it’s possible to find a black dress that says “I’m married to a man with a BMW” while whispering “I’m also doing the pool boy”.
 

Balancing Conservative Looks with Statement Ensembles

Husbands are often hypocritical with their ideas about what their wife should wear. They want her to look smoking hot and act as a trophy but also get upset when guys stare or ogle too much. You may find as your marriage progresses that the clothes and outfits you buy become more and more conservative.

It’s fine to dress conservatively when the time is right, but it’s also your right as a woman to let your hair down and have fun from time to time. Tell your husband that you want to buy some sexier pieces of clothing that will excite him and reignite that spark you used to have in your dating days. These can be stored in the back of the closet and carefully removed when you want to go have a sexy night on the town with a lover.

Lingerie and Underwear

Most men don’t care about what lingerie their wife buys as long as it’s hot and it gets them going in the bedroom. Some men, however, are very particular about bedroom attire and what suits their taste. For instance, a lot of men appreciate lace panties while others go crazy over thongs and G-strings.

A lover who appreciates certain lingerie sets may be disappointed if you tell him you can’t buy things he likes because your husband will get suspicious. Instead of making one man suffer while the other reaps the rewards, buy both kinds of lingerie – How To Pick Lingerie Men Will Love – and tell him you want to try new things. See if you can convert one or the other to the other man’s tastes. If not, create a hidden panty stash. If your hubby find it, say you like them but you feel like he wouldn’t approve.
 

Jewels, Jewels, and More Jewels

You might find that your men will buy you jewelry from time to time. Your husband is apt to buy you pieces for anniversaries and birthdays, while lovers will do it just because they want to solidify your relationship. It’s hard to explain to a husband where a random piece of expensive jewelry came from. If at all possible, hide the jewelry and come up with a clever lie to explain them away. Only wear them while with your lover to let him know you’re taking risks for him.