Affair Handbook

Having an affair is a tricky situation and finding ways to keep from getting caught is even trickier. Today’s age of technology makes it even harder to keep ones whereabouts under wraps but fortunately, it can be done. One of the most helpful ways not to get caught having an affair is to avail yourself of all the most common ways men usually get caught and make sure you steer clear of those situations. Below are the 5 most common ways men are caught having an affair. Study each carefully and ensure you do not make the same rookie mistakes. Along with explanations we offer some helpful tips how you can avoid the same mistakes so many others have fallen victim to. Remember, if you are having an affair the goal is to always keep it under wraps, and away from your wife.

#1 – Cell Phones

Cell phones can be public enemy number one when you’re having an affair. This can be especially true if your spouse is comfortable using your phone and/or has access to the bill. Your spouse can pick up your phone at any moment and view your call history both incoming and outgoing. (How to block Iphone Call History) Some men feel a level of comfort if the number is unknown to their spouse or comes up as restricted but that is unfounded. Spouses can easily check the bill either in paper form or online and there are many resources on the Internet to reverse look up a phone number if she is curious enough. If your using a dating service or messaging service things get even more complicated. Some dating apps offer a hidden or disguised icon so that it looks like a fishing app. The best course of action, however, is probably to use a disposable cell phone for all affair activity.

#2 – Computers

Your computer is just as dangerous as your phone. Your browsing history, form submissions and search history is recorded for everyone to see. It is important to learn how to delete your history but also to remember to do it. It doesn’t help to know how to delete your history if you don’t ever do it. Most major browsers do offer a private browsing window. Learn how to use it. If your using affair sites like Ashley Madison (Details behind the recent Ashley Madison hack) or Affairs club it’s going to be obvious you’re having an affair or at least that you’re looking for one.

#3 – Credit Card Statements and Hotel Receipts

Credit card statements and receipts can really set you out. If you told your wife you were working late on Wednesday and she finds a receipt for dinner at a fine dining establishment in your pocket while doing the laundry on Thursday, you have a lot of explaining to do and she will be on the lookout for further suspicious activity. Credit card statements are incredibly hard to hide, especially if your wife pays the bills or has access to them. There are two options here, use cash at all times or get a prepaid card for all marital indiscretions. If you can pull it off, a third option is to get a credit card in your own name that your wife doesn’t know about.

#4 – Your Car

So many men get caught cheating because they have left something conspicuous in the car. Never have sex in your car because it leaves a smell that’s hard to get out, especially in the immediate hours afterward. Another reason is the stray items that may fall of or get lost in the act. Earrings, panties, condom wrappers and cosmetics can easily get jostled around in the melee only to appear when your wife and kids are on their way to the discovery museum Monday morning. If your using your own car for your affair it’s a good idea to stop before you get home and vacuum it out, spray a little air freshener and check under the seats.

#5 – Stay in Contact

The most suspicious activity of all may be spans of time where you are M.I.A. If your wife always calls you at lunch, don’t stop answering those calls. No matter what you have to do, be able to answer those calls. (Don’t be winded, either!) The same thing goes if you’ve been gone longer than expected and your wife calls. Answer it. Suddenly not answering her calls when you usually do is a big sign that something is up. Text messaging is the same. If exchanging messages via text with your wife periodically throughout the day is your thing, make sure to keep it up. Any change in the way you communicate will trigger suspicion.

Now that you know the most commonly made mistakes in an affair that cause men to get caught, you can consider yourself armed. You have the knowledge to keep yourself safe. The key is to not get lazy. Just one of these mistakes can mean the difference between getting caught and pulling off a successful affair. Fortunately, these actions will eventually become habits and you won’t have to think so hard about it each and every time you go out. If you value your marriage and want to keep it, however, make sure you keep steadfast in your efforts.