Affair Handbook

When you’re having an affair, nothing matters except how you’re feeling and what’s happening with you right now, this minute. Having an affair is all about living in the moment and fulfilling long suppressed desires. It’s about making the most of each second because no day is promised and nothing lasts forever. Even knowing that it won’t last, and isn’t supposed too, we still have affairs because they feel good. They feel good now but it also feels good later in life when we can recall all those hot sexy trysts. That doesn’t just go for us men either. It goes for women too. They longingly look back on the hottest hotties of their own past and we should all strive to hold that place in someone’s heart. One of the best ways to leave a lasting impression is to give her the most exciting first date kiss she has ever had.

Timing is Everything

What matters most is timing. Even if you get a little sloppier than you meant to or your aim is a bit off, you can save it with a perfectly timed kiss. Going in for a kiss too soon will make a woman feel rushed and unsure. She isn’t sure yet if she even wants to kiss you. This is just a first date and she will be risking a marriage for you. She wants to make sure it’s worth it. Waiting too late will make you look like you lack confidence and have no charisma. One of the longstanding myths about first date kisses is waiting until the very end. Doorstep kisses are outdated and sappy. If your sitting in a dark bar watching a lounge singer belt her heart out and your eyes meet, fire snaps between you – go for it!

Don’t Make Assumptions

As we discussed above, assuming the right time for a first kiss with your affair is at the end of the night is dead wrong. Along this same vein, don’t assume you have to be the one to make the first move either. She may feel a bolt of lightning streak through her body when you brush her elbow on the way to the car and lean in for the deed. Be open to it. Don’t assume she’s of low morals or a bully. These days’ women are as responsible for their feelings as we all are and they show it. It’s a nice change from having to guess what they want and if the time is right.

Less is More

That first kiss can only be perfect if your affair is left wanting more. It should be so passionate you take her breath away but not sloppy or aggressive in a scary way. Impart just enough muscle to let her know you want her and find her attractive. After you make that point stop. Pull away from her just before it seems like she’s willing to rip off every shred of clothing on her body. Leave her wanting more and breathlessly awaiting the next time you put your lips to hers.

Put Your Stamp on It

Women who fondly recall their best kiss ever, (read some stories) especially while having an affair, are those that contain some small special maneuver that the kisser calls his own. It may be a tiny nibble on the bottom lip, it could be a leading finger to direct her lips to yours. So many sexy little touches that take a mundane kiss into something fantastic and remarkable. It’s that certain special something that you have to come up with that will make your affair the one she never forgets.

Garlic Breath

No matter how bad of a kisser you think you are, it becomes 10 times worse if you have bad breath or dirty teeth. You should not only brush your teeth before each date but also before the kiss if that’s possible. There are many different products to carry in your pocket that are used to clean your teeth, gums and tongue. Having a clean and tingly mouth also leads to better kisses. Learn why garlic makes your breath smell bad.

Bravado

If every woman you have ever dated has told you that you are an amazing kisser, don’t let it go to your head. As a matter of fact, disregard it every time you hear it. The one time you decide you are the best kisser on the planet is the day you will be the worst. Women hate to be made to feel like you are doing them a favor by kissing them. Realize that she has as much invested in this affair as you do and treat her as such. Having an affair to remember starts with the very first kiss. Don’t take it lightly.