If you’re a man hoping to have an affair, I have good news for you: there’s a sizable subset of women very much into sleeping with married and attached men. Walk into a bar alone and unless you’re hot or obviously wealthy few women will flirt with you. Walk into a bar with a beautiful woman and the ladies will fall all over themselves to flirt with you. What’s that about?

The competition is the thing
Humans are wired to compete and with women in the modern age there’s a strong desire to want what they don’t have. If a girl has an expensive purse or pair of jeans everyone else wants it. It’s what allows companies to charge a small fortune for a bit of leather (a purse) or denim (designer jeans). It’s the same thing that allows a married man to scoop up lots of available ladies to have an affair. If your wife is attractive it makes you even more likely to find plenty of willing partners if you’re married but looking. Your wife’s attractiveness automatically confers attractive qualities to you that the ladies can’t help but want.

Cheating is exciting
This one is pretty simple and is the reason behind all kinds of naughty behavior: it’s exciting. A long term relationship with an available man has its rewards but it will never have the thrill of an illicit sexual relationship with a married man. Some women even find the sneaking around to be arousing. The thrill of having sex in the marital bed while the wife is at work or out of town is irreplaceable and drives many women to have an affair with a married guy.

The sex is animalistic and amazing
If a single woman is looking for great, passionate, animalistic sex a married guy can often be the best choice. If he’s been with the same woman for ten years it’s perfectly natural for it to have gotten a little stale. Serve him up a dish of fresh lady and he’ll go wild. The newness of it combined with the naughty nature of having an affair leads to some of the most arousing, exciting, mind blowing sex he’s ever had and the girl can’t get enough, which is why she accepts the fact that he’s not a long term solution but is instead a short term joy.

His sexual experience makes him better in bed
Just because a married man wants to find an affair doesn’t mean his sex life has dried up. In fact, a married couple having sex once or twice a week is still doing it more than the average single guy, which gives married men the advantage of sexual experience. Single ladies that date married but looking men often report that their sexual experience as a chief reason for engaging in the relationship. Married men tend to be more attentive lovers as well since in their relationship they can no longer rely on the heat of early passions and must genuinely connect with their wife to bring out an orgasm.

Some women just want to date an unavailable man
Under most of the reasons is a subconscious truth: for some women the only kind of relationship they can sustain is one where the man is ultimately unavailable. If he’s married then he can’t get involved in a truly intimate and emotionally close relationship, which means he can’t hurt the girl in that deep, core sort of way. In every woman that strictly dates married or attached men you’d find a deep seated fear of emotional pain likely caused by a childhood trauma. They’re coping with it as best they can and you can take advantage and have sex with a married man.