Affair Handbook

It doesn’t matter if its the first time you have an affair, or one of many, there are a lot questions. You know you want it to happen but you don’t know how to get it started. Even after you’re enmeshed in an affair, there are still many questions about how long to carry on, how to get more sex, be safe and end it on a good note. Trying to get the answers to all these questions before the time in eminent is a great idea and we are here to help. Below you’ll find the top FAQ’s people ask when starting an affair.

Question: Who Makes the Best Affair Partners?

Answer: This a smart question to ask and hopefully you’ve asked it before you chose one and not after it was too late. You see an attractive woman at work or at the neighborhood BBQ joint or a friend’s party. She’s flirty so automatically she’s a candidate, right? Wrong. So, so wrong. Just because she is game doesn’t make her the right one. You need someone who makes you confident you wont be caught and who you feel on the same page with. Its also best if you choose someone outside your social circle and preferably living in a different town. The good thing about online dating is that it makes this so incredibly easy. There is much debate over whether the best affair partner is single or married. Single women tend to have their own lives to live and aren’t as worried about what you’re doing. Often, they like married men and seek them out over their own peers. However, you run the risk of her falling in love and deciding to ruin you’re marriage and have you all to yourself. On the other hand, you have married women. They make great affair partners because they have their own reasons to keep things quiet. There is the chance of the dreaded L-word here too, though not as often. There is always the possibility that she will decide that the grass is greener on your side of the road.

Question:How to Find the Best Affair Partners

Answer: Let me make one thing perfectly clear here. The one tried and true rule about where to find a great affair partner is NOT to choose her from work. It hardly ever works out. Affairs aren’t meant to last forever anyway and when it does end your still stuck working with her. Besides making things tough a work between the two of you, you never know what she will say to everyone else. Especially if things ended badly. It’s also hard to get out clean when you still have to look at her every day. Some of the best places to find an affair partners are places where you can start out fairly anonymous and option the amount of personal information you give out. Bars and nightclubs are great hunting grounds. Any event where a lot of people are gathered works good too. Concerts, theaters, and shopping venues make great choices. The best place of all is probably the Internet. The many dating sites on the web make having an affair way to easy. There are a plethora of dating sites and apps dedicated specifically to infidelity with special security and privacy features. You can also personalize your searches on those things to find women in a certain geographic area. Pretty handy.

Question: How to Get the Most Sex out of the Affair

Answer: Here it is, the question everyone asks sooner or later. And why wouldn’t they? That’s what it all boils down too isn’t it? There isn’t usually a problem getting plenty of sex with your affair partner. That is the point, after all, or it wouldn’t be an affair. There are, however, a few things to keep in mind that will maximize that aspect of the relationship to its fullest capabilities. The first thing to remember is to be upbeat. Be happy, happy to see her, happy to be with her, just happy. Chances are pretty good her marriage is not too good. She is looking for a bit of relief from the crap her marriage has turned into and the more you can remind her how fun it is in the sack with you, the more often she will want to be there. Which brings me to the next tip. Don’t get to clingy. It’s called an affair for a reason. It’s not a marriage. You have no ties on that woman. She has no responsibility to you. Showing her that you realize this and appreciate the time she does give you is a huge turn on. Another great tip is not to forget to be romantic. Just because its an affair doesn’t mean you shouldn’t pour on the charm. If all else fails you’ll be leaving her with some great memories.