Affair Handbook

Though it isn’t as commonly mentioned in the media, plenty of women cheat on their husbands or partners. However, it is pretty common for the motivations of men and women who begin affairs to be different. There is always, of course, the common motivators of disliking the person that they are currently with, or commonly for men, just wanting sex with someone when their wife begins to lose interest. However, often times women cheat because they aren’t receiving something, or many things from the people that they are currently partnered with. When that happens, the affairs that are to be had are often colored by the motivation of the woman, and it can be good for you to find out her reasoning so that you can have the best experience possible through understanding and providing what she needs from you. Here are a few ways that women cheat on their husbands.



 

#1 – Adventure

There is always more room for adventure in a woman’s life, and someone that she has had sex with for years gets boring. There is the attractive prospect of having a new and exciting activity to participate in and someone new to try it out with. The more daring types might go for someone considered more classically dangerous than they would normally date in real life, so if you are looking for some action and it seems like the right idea, let your wild side show, the right kind of woman will be very into it.
 

#2 – Attention

If a partnership has become dull, and her husband is no longer kind to his wife, it is more than likely that she will seek out a partner who will respect her and shower her in affection. If a woman is cheating for this reason, she wants a lover who will treat her with love and kindness, and if that sort of action comes naturally to you, don’t be afraid of getting too attached. Just knowing that you are interested in what she wants and willing to be compromising in bed and with romantic gestures will give her what she needs from an affair that she isn’t getting with her husband. Always be attentive to whatever kind of lover you take, but be aware of the levels she might need.
 

#3 – Experimental Sex

Sometimes asking a partner to experiment with fetish or other sexual activities that are off the beaten path is a daunting and potentially embarrassing task. Sometimes, even if asked, certain partners will refuse to help their partner explore this side of sexuality. If you are a kinkster and looking to please, you will be perfect for what she has in mind. Be open to the weird and the not so weird, and never make anyone feel bad about what turns them on. If you find someone compatible with your fetishes (32 wild fetishes people have), you will have a fulfilling affair that doesn’t dig too deep or go too far.

#4 – Adrenaline Rush

Just like people who enjoy having sex in a place they have the potential to be discovered in, or those who like to be looked at, there is pleasure from the adrenaline. That rush that comes from when you are doing something wrong or dangerous is something that many people desire and enjoy. If you are looking for something a little wild and edgy, there are plenty of women out there looking for that, it is just a matter of finding them. Role play can add an extra element of interest too, and there is no reason not to experiment and try to get your blood flowing, especially with the added rush that naughtiness will bring to the table of your relationship. Remember not to go too dangerous, and never actually let your spouses find out what you are doing on the side, if you want to keep the relationship of course.
 

#5 – Forbidden Fruit

The concept of a forbidden fruit type of relationship is very appealing to most people. When something is denied it only becomes more desirable. It doesn’t matter the venue of this denial. It can be society’s standards, or the terms of the contract of a marriage or partnership, but in either case, sometimes another partner is too good to pass up. You probably have experienced this phenomenon yourself. If you want to have an engaging and interesting affair, it is essential that you maximize that forbidden nature of your relationship. Nothing feels better than having someone tell you that they enjoy being with you too much to stop seeing them, even though you know it is wrong. If that feeling is mutual, there is even more excitement and fun to be had in your affair. Maximize your strengths and get to know which motivations work the best for you in terms of finding a lover who really wants to go exactly where you were already headed.